New year resolution number 1

I've been making new years resoultions and goals every year.
Without fail, every year, I fail to complete most of them.

This year will not be the same.
I'll list down some goal which I aim to accomplish and break them down into smaller parts and aim to complete the goal but gradually completing each small parts.

erm...What should my first resolution be?
I'm a student, studies should be my priority.
But looking back on my life, there is one goal which I fail to complete every year.
That is to enhance my spiritual growth.
I've been neglecting that a lot for a while and I've been thinking. God has done so much for me, yet I continue to disappoint him.
Ok, its settled then.

My first new year resolution is to grow spiritually.
Erm...spiritual growth has always been something hard to measure...
Ok...small steps to big goal...what small steps can I take?
1) Church attendence.
above 80%...must monitor that though.

I was thinking of joining a cell group, but I don't have a friend that close that I would want to be in the same cell group as. I will probably keep a look out.

2) Get baptised by this year.
Not something I can confirm on. I wanted to do it a long time ago, but for some reason I became very reluctant to do it because I don't really like some things my christian friends say to me. They are too judgemental. They think they know everything, alway critising me. It pisses me off!! Then its times like these I become irrational and say or do things that I regret and drift away from god.

I guess its not too easy to gauge and measure such stuff, but when the middle of the year comes, I'll look back and evaluate my goals again. Maybe from there I can conclude on how to modify the goals.